Наш атмосферный вечер в Галле 😍
Место, куда приезжали дважды. Первый раз приехали на байке ближе к закату, потрясающий вид, но пришлось быстренько собраться домой, немножко мы с малышом на дорогах всё-таки осторожничали 😁
Второй раз поехали на поезде, это особенные ощущения. Не смотря на внешний вид поездов, они великолепны, когда не переполнены, конечно 😁 ( в переполненном мы тоже прокатились 😂)
Галле - исторический городок, но, к сожалению, я очень далека от истории и больше ничего рассказать не могу 😂
Просто очень уютно, свежо, тепло и красиво 😍 #shrilanka#vacationtime#galle#myfamily
Last night i read a blog about a mum explaining about the struggles of people judging her for not wanting to have anymore children, and how she had been judged for that and how she had no shame for not wanting more children
It really got me thinking about all the times i have been judged for saying i dont want anymore
Why do we feel the need to have to explain ourselves about the fact we dont want anymore children?
Why do we have to go into detail about how bad our postanal depression was, or how bad labour was its made us not want anymore, or how many miscarriages people have been through, infact any reasons for not wanting anymore.
Some people dont want anymore children and thats ok
Some people dont want any children at all and thats ok
Some people want loads of children and thats ok
Some people want two children and thats ok
I stumbled across this picture ive posted and it really rings true about what people say/think about family sizes, i have had the whole "you've got to have one more" "aw come one just have another one" "you need to give her a sibling"
And it really gets to me becuase firstly are you totally disregarding that my daughter already has a sister? yes she has a different mum but thats her sister and shes our family, secondly have you ever thought that maybe i dont want anymore? I gave my baby everything i had when she was born and i still do, shell be 4 this year and honestly PERSONALLY i couldnt think of anything worse than going back to the baby stage with a new born. And thats fine becuase its what I want its no one elses business. Just as its non if my business if you want 10 children.
I support the decision that works for YOU, becuase i am not you i dont live your life
Has anyone experienced something like this? Share your stories 🌠
4 года назад в нашей маленькой семье появилась чудесная, очаровательная девочка Василиса, и наша с @sergeynaimushin жизнь поменялась 🙏💕 это ЛЮБОВЬ с двух полосок, с первого УЗИ, с первого пинка, с первого взгляда - большая и чистая ❤ и НАВСЕГДА 💯