Shoutout to all the men who have a loyal woman by their side. Encouraging and motivating their men. Reminded us who we are and how built extraordinary our love is regardless of the critics in our world.
Tag your woman ♥️
After all. In the end. What else is there? Except for love? What else makes people write songs and stories and movies and poems. Go to war. Generation after generation. To make people laugh and cry. Energise and force risk. Lunge life forwards and backwards. Propel into a sense of calm and abandon in equal measure. Gets us out of bed. Keeps the blood pumping through our veins. To love, to keep loving, is my strongest character trait, and my weakest. It is my drive and my distraction. But my greatest love has to be self. Better to have loved than never. Easier to love another than myself. Though self love is necessary it is the love of my family, my friends that I live for. #love#loveistheanswer#heal#energy#strongwoman#lifelessons#passion#movingon
Ladies, I know you understand the power of loving someone with all your heart. It's so powerful. You're willing to go over and beyond to show your love. It's an indescribable feeling, yet it's one of the best feelings in the world. To love and be loved is the best. #HerHeart#LoveEncouraging 🖤
These kids make my ♥️ so full! My ah-ha over the last 6 months has been to teach them more about friendship, it’s importance and letting go of unhealthy, hurtful relationships.
I’ve had to make a conscious effort to really help them grow, contribute and cherish the important friends in their respective worlds. They’re happier and more social than I’ve ever seen and it shows in everything they are doing.
Friendships are tough to navigate but the real ones, the ones of give and take, acceptance, trust and respect are priceless. I can’t wait to hear them tell stories on each other 20 years from now as I’ve had the blessings to do over the last few weeks w my own lifelong friends.
So much love for the #realLG peeps, #Htown folk and the West side college crew!
Side note — these pics were taken w my iPhone as we quickly got out of the car in my front yard...I actually caught the colors of the amazing winter #azsunset !! .
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Same situation different people. You escaped the previous situation because it brought too much pain and/or discomfort. You thought walking away would allow you avoid dealing with the issue. But life has a way of repeating moments to ensure you learn all that you need to.
Feel, learn and heal. Or repeat, repeat and REPEAT!
Even the slowest tortoise can defeat the quickest hare, and even the proudest hare can learn a timeless lesson from the most humble tortoise. Success depends on using your talents, not just having them!
The hardest thing in this world to accept, is when you’re not as important to someone, who’s important to you.
Loving someone doesn’t mean they’ll love you back.
Putting someone first, doesn’t mean they’ll do the same for you.
Being there for someone is no garantee that they’ll be there for you.
1015 minutes ago
Lunchtime Lollygag Message 🗣🗣🗣
People will try to pull your peace into their chaos. Don't allow them to do so.....
Be encouraged 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Author Shondra Mitchell
5318 minutes ago
"You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. True power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass."
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
GOAL ORIENTATION -- "When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps. " Confucius.
This beautiful butterfly artwork at Sculptures by the Sea inspired a post on goal orientation. This is the term used to explain the mindset applied to achievement-related activities. The type of goals you set can have a major impact on your long term performance.
People tend to adopt goal orientations depending on the situation or environment, but there can also be some stability in these orientations – simply the way one naturally approaches work & learning. Generally, there are 2 types of goal orientations people adopt: mastery and performance.
Mastery orientation is described as a focus on learning & improvement. Performance orientation refers to a focus on demonstrating competence relative to others (eg. trying to appear smart). Psychologists tend to agree that a mastery orientation is highly adaptive & carries the most positive qualities, including perseverance, seeking out challenges & a desire to learn. A performance orientation can also yield positive outcomes (eg. good grade, job promotion), but at a detrimental cost. People who are focused on outperforming others & looking smart tend to be more anxious.
Interestingly, there is evidence of a lasting positive effect with exposure to mastery-oriented environments, as people seem to maintain adaptive motivational patterns even in new situations.
The practical application is that teachers or leaders could allow people to have choice in what they're doing, allowing more autonomy, rather than giving orders or micromanaging. Leaders also can structure environments that encourage intellectual risks, rather than punish mistakes. Reducing social comparison & competition can also foster mastery & reduce performance-goal orientations.
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